Your caps lock is on. : )

I am not you. Other place might tell YOU exactly what you should do, or even what God told them to tell you to do wink

However, this is your life. I am not dodging a bullet here, I think that you should be in direct control of YOUR life.

I will point out that you a boundary is pretty much an ultimatium.

THIS or THAT.

If you do this, (usually bad behaviour) I will do that, (Punishment).

What I did with my wife?

"If he is in your life in any aspect, I will not be."


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet