If other people truly are calling the shots on what your h does or feels...then you have the answer. You are not in control of it. Let it go. I mean, what else can you do if that's actually true? You can congratulate yourself on not being with someone who is under the control of his parents and drinks heavily and is possibly suicidally depressed. You can get some therapy so you learn to know why you'd find someone like that so important to your happiness. Or you can let him go. Get a life, have a PMA and do the things the book says so often. DETACH...it really is your only choice, regardless of the circumstance.
j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change