Thanks newmama! I could also probably just call my lawyer.
I know in my state you don't have to "legally file" - I think it is probably just an agreed upon date.
It's just so freaking confusing. WH still has his stuff here (besides his clothes which I packed up and told him to come and get). He still hasn't switched his phone to his own account (which he made sound like was something he needed done right away). Haven't gotten any calls from lawyers or mediators. Just kind of floating around right now.
Everyday is like a rollercoaster - some days are better than others. Today is a pretty good day and I can see the positive side of the seperation... I think it needed to happen at least for me to be able to see the way things were going from a different perspective but it has also reinforced to me how much my WH means to me. Ten years together is a hard thing to let go of. I have known WH since I was 13, started dating when we were 18, married when we were 25. All of my adult memories involve him. I do have a life besides him but every event, holiday, etc is with him.
