Future, you said a few times that you weren't sure you were ready to re-commit to your marriage, even if she agrees to your conditions. There isn't a rush. You've got a lot of years ahead of you. Just watch how things develop, and don't push the sex part--because it will put you back in the relationship immediately. Funny how you should wait--even though you're still married!
It is incredibly frustrating, having to think about my WIFE in this context. The vibe is very good between us, but I can feel each of us doing an emotional dance. She just now sent me an e-mail saying that very thing. She says she's feeling a push and pull, sometimes wanting to rush back in, then wanting to pull back and go slow.
She's suggesting we go away for a few days together to get away from kids and work and see how we do. It's been incredibly frustrating trying to get time to ourselves. We know we do great with the kids. We need to find out how we are together, just us.
