Rings- I wore mine for a few months until I felt "truly separated."

filing for D- have you dug around the website for your state/county? I would think that the court would need to know the dates of separation. Do you need to file papers proving you were separated? Or do they just ask you on the divorce paperwork? like "separated since _-_-_"

and some places have a motion to waive the waiting period.

in my county, I can download all the divorce paperwork and look at it. Can you? You might be able to find the answer to your question!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004