Hang in there. You're not alone. While my sitch is different, in my case, I would love to hand that book to my W, but I know it would only be effective if she asked me for advice or made a comment that I could follow up with her. Me just suggesting it will be interpreted as a way of trying to get us back together, and thats against my 180 at the moment. My W totally went dark on our relationship - and I've learned here that I cannot fix her - so I'll wait her out to see where we go in time. You seem to be on right track with gym , etc. - keep that up. Hope this helps
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010
