Quote:
Did your W say she wouldn't go back for another MC session? Not right now but perhaps in a couple weeks you can ask her if she wants to go again or better yet tell her you made an appt and she is welcome to join you. This way she won't feel you're controlling her to do so...it will be her choice. I would tell her that you appreciate her going to the first MC session and learned a lot from listening to her.


She hasn't mentioned anything at all about it. Waiting a couple of weeks and asking her again sounds like a good idea. Like I said, I was thinking of going for IC anyway.

Quote:
By the way, I play drums. Not great or in a band but I love putting on my headphones and playing. Great stress reliever. I can't sing a lick...wish I could. I have a guitar and taken some lessons but never could get the hang of it. Thinking of picking it back up but drums is my favorite.


It is a great stress reliever, isn't it? I am teaching one of the twins to play and he is coming along really well. I also play drums, piano, and piddle around on numerous other instruments. The kids love playing around on the piano and guitar. The band I used to be in had a reunion type thing last year and our picture was in the local paper. My son had to take it to school to show his friends that his dad was "famous". Pretty funny.


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1933641#Post1933641