but why not ask first and then if she doesn't comply, then get the jammer? It's a lot cheaper.

and there is NO WAY you two will be able to avoid conflict.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004