Thanks SA & M&H - I have to go to the C soon. Getting mentally ready....

This is what I'm repeating to myself

Listen, listen & listen
Validate, validate & validate
Don't blame
Don't make him feel guilty
Don't inserts your famous sarcastic one-liners
Don't cry
Don't try to solve R
Don't let him suck you in
Don't reason...it's a no win

I'm sure there is more...but If I manage those I'll be happy with myself.

Here we go smile


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO