Because you have kids and combined assets, I would advise that you have a legal consult just so you know where you stand.
As to that convo with landlord, they are men and they are pigs. I wouldn't pay much mind to that.
As to what I see with your sitch, your H is very confused. You need to give him space and have him miss you. Have him get a bit jealous. That is when you have the most reaction from him.
Yeah, I noticed that too..
Him seeing pics of me out this past weekend AND with no ring on sent him over the edge...but now he's back to a$$hole mode...
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson