Hey, Mila, I've been somewhere else for a few days so I haven't been reading your thread.
My H's OW is also in MLC IMHO - then again, she may just be eternally stuck as a teenager, I didn't know her before. It makes you wonder how this works, if one stays stuck or in it longer than the other, or if they feed each other.
You're doing well with your H. It does sound like things are already exploding with their world... but don't be surprised when there is a resurgence after she D's. I just read an article where it said that D brings about a surge of PEA, just like an A does. No wonder sometimes people in the courtroom decide to back out and not go through with it.
