yep. From whatever show it was: "just the facts, ma'am." You don't need to thank her for doing something she didn't consult you about and you didn't sign up for. That's the old SR- the one who thought that would make a difference in how she treated you and what actions she'd take b/c you were being nice. Now we know it doesn't matter, so you don't need to go an inch out of your way to do extra nice-ness. And not doing so, is not rude or mean, it just is. Keep it very businesslike, straight to the point, polite, short.


When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.