Did your W say she wouldn't go back for another MC session? Not right now but perhaps in a couple weeks you can ask her if she wants to go again or better yet tell her you made an appt and she is welcome to join you. This way she won't feel you're controlling her to do so...it will be her choice. I would tell her that you appreciate her going to the first MC session and learned a lot from listening to her.
Hang in there my friend.
By the way, I play drums. Not great or in a band but I love putting on my headphones and playing. Great stress reliever. I can't sing a lick...wish I could. I have a guitar and taken some lessons but never could get the hang of it. Thinking of picking it back up but drums is my favorite.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch