WE HAVE NO CHOICE.....you have to get over the "best thing that ever happened to me......I was not good enough" and go on offense a little.
I know it is only talk when I say eff her....her loss....YOU have to believe it! You have to believe you can do better....you have to believe that there is another chapter that YOU can make better......
My dad who is a man of few words told me way way back....."Son she is not a woman for YOU, perhaps she was at the beginning but not now....the sooner you accept that the better off you will be"