Here, we have to wait a year for the divorce, which means I can file around Valentine's Day and be divorced by St. Patrick's Day. I don't want a divorce, but he's gone - living with that bimbo and not making any move that I can see (despite what he's told my friend) to reconcile - so I wonder if it's better to rip off the bandaid quickly or to just wait ... until he tells me HE wants a divorce because the bimbo's pregnant?
Any suggestions or advice?
Discovered OW1: 1/10, H refused to talk. H moved in w 1st OW: 3/10 H cheated on OW1: 12/10 H left OW1, moved in w OW2: 4/11 D: 9/11 Still miss H. Don't understand, H just left, never even talked w me.
