thanks for the post mza8,

I joined the dating site b/c a friend suggested it and I thought "what the hex, let me see what's out there". Not knowing the in and outs of the site, I clicked on her friend.(The one I despise)
Apparently you can view others who have clicked on your profile. That's how she found out.

It did come up at our meeting and I told her the same thing. Then I added I joined for me, not to put it in her face.

Since the meeting I honestly haven't thought about her at all. I was out with other women enjoying their company.

As for saving my M, I have mixed feelings right now. That's why I was thinking about giving her the letter I wrote back in February. My last attempt to tell her my feelings and thoughts. And that I am OK swith what ever she decides.


It's going to be a revealing next few days


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