Exposed finally,,limbo land

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It is her father's advice to not seperate until kids are out of school, for the sake of the extra drama that it could cause if thier friends talk to them about it, as well as grades. I want to keep him on my side in this, as well as I feel these are valid points.
Last thing I heard before sleep last night was an incoming text, that she answered, and the first thing I heard this morning also incoming text. Very upsetting, but I couldn't compose myself in time, because I had to get the DD's off to school and leave for work two minutes later.

Niether one of us is good at confrontation, which makes matters much worse in these situations.

I'm very scared to use something like this, but I'm also tired of TM's:

I feel that the constant TM’ing, especially right in front of me and DD’s or in our presence is horribly disrespectful to all of us, it needs to stop. If you continue to flaunt this in our faces and continue disrespecting me and DD’s, I think you need to sleep in the basement or family room until you move out.

This would also resend the messege that I will not be the one to move.