It has been very hard. I think one thing that makes me smile a bit, I know it's cruel & yes sometimes hurtful & also a stab in the back but also I think that it means that I'm still a threat to her. If I wasn't a threat why would she do this! When we were married, I didn't want his ex to know anything about us, what we were doing or how happy we were or anything, I didn't steal him away from her either, this ow knows what she did. I wasn't threatened by his ex & to me the more she didn't know about us the better I liked it. This ow wants me to know everything! So, it also tells me things are not what they appear. If you have to broadcast it!!
I have had many suggestions about changing my email, but again you have a good point, she would know she is getting to me & I'm not going to give her the satisfaction. I think if the shoe were on the other foot, she would be responding. I use this email for work so it's not as simple as it sounds.
The first few emails, especially the one where she thanked me for my H & thanked me for not suing her for stealing my H was the one that got to me the most. I did call my ex at that time & left him a message on his cell phone to tell his woman friend never to contact me again. I don't know if he told her or not, I have a feeling he didn't. He would have thought what she did was cruel, but at the time he may not have cared. Who knows. That was right after he moved his stuff out of the house.
Now, I don't think the grass is greener on the other side. I'm giving it to God, He has to handle this for me! I can't do it alone.
