It's a tough call about the wife of the work OM... If you expose, you don't have much leverage, but if you don't... she's not being treated fairly...
She may even know already anyhow...
Make sure this work guy knows you want HIM to tell your WIFE "It's OVER" and he wants NO FURTHER CONTACT from HER either
Many newbies here miss this important point :
Contact must end from BOTH ends... HE has to stop contacting YOUR WIFE and SHE must be told by HIM that HE does NOT want to hear from HER ANYMORE...
You tell this guy to tell your wife to steer clear, that he loves his wife and his marriage and wants to save it and she's an interference from that... and that SHE shoudl do the SAME
