AP10,

That's where your transparency plan comes in.

But I do kinda think it's too early in the process for you to leave him on his own. If he were a recovering alcoholic, only a couple of weeks sober and re-committed to his sobriety, would you be leaving him alone?

No, you DON'T have any reason to trust him right now. I prefer you have a full transparency system in place (sounds like yours is decent), with at least ONE piece of it being something he DOESN'T know you have access to.

Puppy