It has been very hard. I think one thing that makes me smile a bit, I know it's cruel & yes sometimes hurtful & also a stab in the back but also I think that it means that I'm still a threat to her. If I wasn't a threat why would she do this! When we were married, I didn't want his ex to know anything about us, what we were doing or how happy we were or anything, I didn't steal him away from her either, this ow knows what she did. I wasn't threatened by his ex & to me the more she didn't know about us the better I liked it. This ow wants me to know everything! So, it also tells me things are not what they appear. If you have to broadcast it!!
I have had many suggestions about changing my email, but again you have a good point, she would know she is getting to me & I'm not going to give her the satisfaction. I think if the shoe were on the other foot, she would be responding. I use this email for work so it's not as simple as it sounds.
The first few emails, especially the one where she thanked me for my H & thanked me for not suing her for stealing my H was the one that got to me the most. I did call my ex at that time & left him a message on his cell phone to tell his woman friend never to contact me again. I don't know if he told her or not, I have a feeling he didn't. He would have thought what she did was cruel, but at the time he may not have cared. Who knows. That was right after he moved his stuff out of the house.
Now, I don't think the grass is greener on the other side. I'm giving it to God, He has to handle this for me! I can't do it alone.
OW is ridiculously evil. That takes a lot of nerve to send you those pictures, she is definitely threatened....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Yes, she sent me an email right after h moved his stuff out of the house & thanked me for the most wonderful man in the world & said that she was so blessed & then thank me for not suing her. She is a piece of work, that is for sure!
I got another one a little later on, they were going to cut my alimony down a month earlier, she sent an email to tell me so I sent one back to with d papers to show they were too early. She sent one back & pretended it was my ex writing this & said that hoped I found someone as wonderful as he had found. Well, the way it was worded, I could tell that was not him writing this. I also got that confirmed from his friend that she sent this. His friend said he wouldn't talk to him on the internet b/c it was her doing the talking not my ex.
I agree, I pray for that little baby!! I also pray that h comes thru the tunnel too, I hope he hasn't gone so far that he can't get out.
Sorry to hear of the baby pics NLT. What a piece of work. Could you simply ask her to take you off the e-mail list regarding personal e-mails since it sounds like it would be more difficult to change your e-mail?
Your ex got a real winner! NOT! Hope you are handling all of this well.
Stay strong!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Glam, if I respond to ow that is just what she wants so the best thing I can do is not respond. I do agree, my ex got a real winner NOT! For her to keep sending these emails just tells me that all is not wonderful in paradise, if she has to keep letting me know how great it is.
CW, I have never talked to ow, thank goodness! I've never even seen her b/c she lived in another state. I've only seen pictures, I don't want to talk to her nor do I ever want to see her. I'm not glad my ex is in another country but I'm glad ow is b/c she is crazy & I don't know what she would do, I think she is a dangerous person. I'm glad you have not had to talk to your h's ow yet, I hope you don't!!
I had a good weekend, we had our annual meeting at church (in my home town)& we had a wonderful time lots of good sermons, but a couple brought their baby & it was sick & now several of us have come down with a virus! YUK! I can't believe this couple brought this baby to church & it sick like that. Oh well, I guess they didn't think it was contagious but apparently it was, it's grandmother had it on Sunday, it's aunt on Sunday night & I started taking it yesterday afternoon so I feel rotten. And I've heard of a few more at church that has come down with it. So, I'm going to bed. I hope you all have a wonderful night! (((HUGS)))
