Well had mediation.

Told Stbxw she is 100% responsible for the breakdown of our marrige and the fact that our son will grow up in a broken hame and i still belive in our marrige.That it could be saved and she needs to drop the O/M for this to happen.

Stbxw told the mediator that i just dont get it that the marrige is over and belives after we divorce that i would never let it go.After that she would not talk to me and only wanted to tell mediator what she wants and said she would not talk directly to me.She would not even look at me. She had glossy look and her face made no expressions.
Mediator asked her wy cant you talk to him she said she was mad at me.

Something came up about wy i deserved to have 50% custody and i started to explain all we went through with sons birth and how ive allways been their for him.Then STBXW wife starts ranting and raving about that im just trying to make her feel guilty for leaving.She told him that she did not want anything brought up about the past and we should just stick with parenting plan.The mediator then sayed we should not talk about the past only what we are doing today.

We have to go back next tuesday to stamp out the other stuff that we could not aggre upon.


A hour after we left the STBXW called and started talking "dont you get it i would of ended up becoming up unhappy if i would of stayed.My life would of been better if my parents would of divorced when i was younger, and this is the best for our son in the long run.
I told her that she is 100% responsible for this and i will allways know that i tryed 100% to save the marrige and some day when our son asks me i will tell him the truth.

She started telling me that she was mad at me for exposing the A and that everyone thinks im crazy and that i should move on.She said she never started dating the O/M till after the seperation started. Then she told me that they are really not dating all that much that she really does not want any relationship.I told her i know thats a lie.Then she started complaing that you have your version and i have mine.
Then she started saying that anyone that knows her knows what the truth is.


Then she started complaing that if we dont get the mediation done that the judge in divorce court will have to decide what will be the finale say.I said no problem then we could get every thing out on the table and we will be under oath and on record and that i have nothing to hide.
Then she hung up on me.

Then a hour later she texted to let me know that she had a blown tire on the freeway on her way home.I told her to call AAA. Then she texted back to let me know that they came and she was back on the road, I told her to let me know when she made it home and she said ok, never herd from her after that.

I think she has so much guilt right now she is trying to justafi what she has done to our family.

Any opinions


Me 37
Waw 32
son2
bomb 8/11/09
O/M 12/25/09
Divorce filed 8/25/09
divorce finale 6/16/10
Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10
Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10