Why on earth would your daughter's utter lack of respect and anger toward her mother be "disturbing" to you? It sounds like a perfectly normal, honest reaction toward a lying betrayer.
It's not so much that she's angry that's disturbing to me as the way she's expressing it that bothers me. For example, "I cannot stand that effing Bitch, why the eff doesn't she just leave me alone." "I cannot believe what a slut she is."
So, it's not that I am not allowing her to think ill of her mom it's just shocking to hear that kind of anger and resentment out of a 14 year old's mouth, especially when it's my beautiful daughter.
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I applaud your daughter for her strong moral code, and I am very pleased that you guys will be moving away to start fresh.
Thank you for that. I cannot wait to start fresh.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!