I went out with some friends last night and I had a nice time not thinking about it. She text me a few times on why I wasn't answering her calls.
Keep this up! Greek
Yes -- agree. Just make sure you don't IMMEDIATELY text her back (contact her), with how you'd prefer not to contact her, kwim?? Unless it's an emergency, or about the kids, you should always answer later, with a "Sorry, just saw this -- I was out. No, not avoiding you, just not prepared to talk about the relationship right now. We'll talk soon."