W's main confidante (female friend) is not helping matters. From my intel I can see the friend stating stuff like this: "Your med problems are due to your bad M. Your problems with your child are due to your bad M. You're too good for H. You need to leave H and move home. I want you back here." W is not "defending" me by any means, but at least she is telling friend that her med issues and problems with child are not directly my fault. The friend, from what I can tell is a miserable individual. Single mom of two whose H died of a drug OD years ago. She would of course love for my W to move back home (6 hours away), so looks like she is working her.
W started taking new script med for depression. Hope it helps to even her out. For now I'm just trying to keep the peace.
