Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

Contact OM privately show him you have all the info on him

List it all in DETAIL so he believes you

His kids names, his wife's name etc

Then tell him to STAY AWAY FROM YOUR WIFE or you'll USE IT

Dude. Remind me NEVER EVER to mess with you. Seriously. I thought I was being a hard person, and you should have read my FB message. I was calm but sincere and stern about my "disappointment". I didn't threaten him at all. I even messaged him again to make sure he knew that.

But I guess my wife, having lost the FB affair, might just run to her work guy and seek comfort because "he understands her", and they will have that connection of both being found out.

So I guess I need to be REALLY tough on this guy to PREVENT anything like that from happening.

Should I forbid him to talk to my wife about me contacting him? She might just think I am the most psycho husband ever when she finds out I contacted BOTH men, and then exposed to family and friends.


BTW, I HAVE ALREADY EXPOSED to her parents (made the SWEAR not to let on where they found out), my parents, my friends, and my coworkers.

I still have yet to do her friends and coworkers. Should I also pursue that as well?