Waiting More Than a Dozen Years

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When I said "nailed" I did not mean it in a sexual way...I meant it as the spot-on observation:

The co-worker was female and my wife was chiding her for her sexual flirtation with another person (suggestive writing and dress for a male that was not her husband) when her coworker made the observation that my wife "used sex" to get a husband.

I hope that clarifies that point.

As for the beach. Well, it was not just any beach. It was a very particular beach and a very particular area of that beach (and one that I had not visited for many years). If I was not dealing with my current situation AND had my previous marriage not seemed to take a rather strange turn at this beach just months before my ex-wife's affair was revealed, my awareness of this location and the signifcance to my life probably would pass with little notice.

The Captain