NLT, Your XH really got mixed up with a winner. This woman seems like a very cruel and sick individual. I feel so sorry for the baby as it seems she is being used. This woman got your XH, I just don't understand why she needs to keep trying to rub it in your face with bigger and better antics.
I so admire you for keeping silent about whatever she tries. Not acknowledging you receive anything must take some 'fun' out of it for her.