I'm sorry to hear about that. Were you finished by that time? Was it an intentional manipulation to get something from you, do you think? I fear that my WH wants to stay married as long as possible for the financial advantages. I would have never, ever suspected him of something like this even a few months ago, but he is so different... And then I see flashes of the good man I loved. I don't know who was talking when he said this to my friend -- though the ski bum's sentiments came through loud and clear with the "kick in the ass" comment. (My friend is German so I doubt she made up that phrase out of whole cloth.)
This whole thing is so confusing and heartbreaking.
Discovered OW1: 1/10, H refused to talk. H moved in w 1st OW: 3/10 H cheated on OW1: 12/10 H left OW1, moved in w OW2: 4/11 D: 9/11 Still miss H. Don't understand, H just left, never even talked w me.
