Hey Romeo...just to show you that flattery will get you everywhere
here are some words of wisdom from someone who has been through the fire and come out the other side...take it with a grain of salt or a tequilla shooter...whichever
I am sorry I didn't read all 7798765 pages of you stuff...my eyes get all wacky and I am mildly adhd
but
i did read that your ex is bi-polar? confirmed or just suspected?
because
if she is bi-polar she does NOT feel bad she doesn't feel guilt about anything she has done because she doesn't think anything she has done is bad she did it to save herself to be a better mother to (fill in the blank)
you can't make crazy make sense
it took me a long time to figure that out
but
remember
you can't make crazy make sense
stop trying you will drive yourself nuts
she is really crazy
AJ lied about everything in our marriage like what he did in high school millions of years before I met him crap that wouldn't matter why? because he was a sociopath
no other reason
he was crazy
he was
not me
she is
not you
once that point sinks its way in everything else will come easier
and
the other side of all this is so much better than I ever imagine my life could be
even when I was married
sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much better
you will get there Romeo just don't drink the damn poison (her craziness) (you know....from Romeo and Juliet???)