Hey Romeo...just to show you that flattery will get you everywhere grin

here are some words of wisdom from someone who has been through the fire and come out the other side...take it with a grain of salt or a tequilla shooter...whichever

I am sorry I didn't read all 7798765 pages of you stuff...my eyes get all wacky and I am mildly adhd

but

i did read that your ex is bi-polar? confirmed or just suspected?

because

if she is bi-polar she does NOT feel bad
she doesn't feel guilt about anything she has done because she doesn't think anything she has done is bad
she did it to save herself
to be a better mother
to (fill in the blank)

you can't make crazy make sense

it took me a long time to figure that out

but

remember

you can't make crazy make sense

stop trying
you will drive yourself nuts

she is really crazy

AJ lied about everything in our marriage
like what he did in high school
millions of years before I met him
crap that wouldn't matter
why?
because he was a sociopath

no other reason

he was crazy

he was

not me

she is

not you

once that point sinks its way in
everything else will come easier

and

the other side of all this is so much better than I ever imagine my life could be

even when I was married

sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much better

you will get there Romeo
just don't drink the damn poison (her craziness)
(you know....from Romeo and Juliet???)

grin