You need to stop trying to guess how she will react. 99.99% you will be wrong. Been there, done that. There is nothing wrong with stalling with the D if it will be in your favor. However, kids need to be #1. If she is going to continue to put your DD in a bad environment, cut your loses and run with the full custody. Someone who would walk away, and look to put their own DD in to foster care, does not have their priorities straight.
