Hey, Ian. What a timely post. I keep thinking I should be farther along, should be 'better' than I am by now. But at the same time I am still pissed bc I thought when I got married that it was for my whole life, I meant it when I said it and hell even if I screwed up my fair share it didn't mean I didn't want to be married. So I think we need to let THEM own that they chose to walk away, we didn't.
Anyway I don't know what I have to offer except that I agree, getting a bunch of hobbies and making new friends, going through all of the motions of 'moving on' is not the same as actually moving on. Fake it till you make it only gets us so far.
Sorry you have to be back on the boards but at the same time, glad to see you here bc I missed you.
