Exposed finally,,limbo land

[newmama]

Optimus Prime, I am impressed that you have decided to take the strong, tough route! Well done! Slow but steady, keep planning, too--very very wise. But I,too, wonder if you need to wait the full 2 weeks.

I saw you were having anxiety earlier tonight...just remember that although it feels like each day is "do or die" and your whole future depends on THIS MOMENT, THESE WORDS...the reality is that boundaries, confidence, restraint, faith and strength will get you through this.

The affair will end up being "not worth this hassle" and the marriage and family will be the comforting option.

(Remember STRENGTH and FEARLESSNESS are very attractive! You will become more attracted to yourself, too!)

you can take the word "work" out of this and it will still make sense:

, and re-discovering what it was that made us fall in love with each other to begin with and we can rebuild our marriage to be much better than it was before.