Its really blowing my mind now to imagine how much our wives elevate these single males outside the relationship, whose sole purpose was to get laid. Many of them are thinking married wives are easier lays these days, as in the biggest sluts. How do we counter this?
This is a gross generalisation. How do you know what the collective group of "single men" think of the collective group of "married women"? And to label a woman as a "slut" under any circumstances is unacceptable.
A slut is a slut. Look it up in the dictionary, a male can be a slut too. I talk to alot of single folks. Many single men believe a complaining wife is one of the easiest lays.
I could make the same generalisation about how it seems to me a lot of married men in unsatisfying relationships spend an inordinate amount of time trying to find women (single or partnered) who they can get a bit on the side with. That would be grossly unfair however given while it’s my experience in RL I read a lot of men on here who would love to connect intimately with their wives and are absolutely not about that.
[quote]How depressing to think of it this way. The marriage belongs to the wife and a husband is simply a prop in the situation. Are we supposed to look at it as a job? [quote]
You can think of it anyway you like – but only you have the power to change something if it’s not working for you.
Originally Posted By: Walking
In the situations you guys are talking about, where you claim that your wives are just not going to compromise to meet your needs … well that’s all on you. If your business partner was taking all the profit while you did all the work would you tolerate that?
Who can have a relationship without any compromise? What if our wife, the business partner is not a business partner at all, but someone who has leveraged their way into a "power boss" of us. It happens.
Originally Posted By: Walking
I’m surprised at that 2/3rds of women would prefer root canal to having sex with their husband. That’s not my experience, nor the experience of my girlfriends, colleagues and sisters. I think most women, just like most men, want passionate, intimate, committed friendships with their husbands … the thing is all the stars have to align for that to happen and it’s hard work.
The stars don't need to align at all. All we have to do is equate our maritial partners happiness with our own. Things go awry when we think we are more clever than our spouses and cheat on them.
