OK - here's another issue. Since no one knows what is going on inside our home - we are supposed to attend a family wedding this weekend. I went ahead and booked a room and offered H to stay (there's a sofa bed available). He said he was trying to save money for "what he was trying to do" (I'm interpreting as leaving me) - I say no problem - I will pay for the room. I ask him if we can act "normal" during the wedding = he agrees. I know that I am allowing him to be a complete ass to me - cruel at times / heartless - but if you know a MLCr is not seeing the world clearly, etc. - are you supposed to call them on it? Or am I supposed to stand back and be the stable one knowing that I am sane???? Help - I feel so embarrassed throwing this stuff out there - but I honestly don't know what I am doing!!! Thanks for listening!
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time
