Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

Oh i won't. Definitely not. He lives fairly far away. But he is visibly mad.

He is going to tell my wife, get her mad, and then they can hate me together. Then they can pair violence with sex, and have more sex chats.

I don't know if I did the right thing. But most of the websites and advice said to CONFRONT the other people.

From most of the websites:

Confronting the Other Person
You are NOT going to want to do this face to face. I do not ever tell anyone to do this face to face. Emotions can really go wild and you will find yourself behaving in ways you wish you never did. It's better to either write a letter or an email. You only want to say this.....You want to cause major conflict in their relationship. You don't want their relationship to be all rosy and wonderful, like they think it is. Remember they are in a fantasy and none of it is real. The sooner your spouse wakes up to this the better. You are hoping that they know spend their time together talking about YOU and how horrible and psycho you are, and this is okay.