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[awest1217]

Try being a teacher for one week...and you would definitely understand getting a break (my first one in 5 years).

H text me tonight. One of his normal "just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. good night". I figured it would be coming soon because S is going to his parents house tomorrow. I am trying to foster a good relationship with them for S, but with H living there I have to deal with him. I really just wish he would grow up and after 14 months make a decision, but I know that will never happen. I am going to do my best to stand my ground. I have been only saving important mail that is his and is sent here (not much anymore because I think he changed his address on a lot), which I will drop off at his parents when I go there. I am not texting back or responding to anything unless he asks a question about S, otherwise nothing.

I am just really dreading tomorrow. I hope H isn't there when I drop off S. Hopefully he will be at work because that is the only place he ever is unless he is with OW. S will only be at the in-laws for around 1.5 hours so not much, but I don't want H to get the benefit of MIL asking to see S. If H wants to be with S, he needs to ask. I just wish sometimes that he would just stick to not texting me ever so I can keep living my life without him.