Kat, I don't want to put myself in an awkward position that ends up causing me more stress and anxiety than it's worth. My previous experience with women is that if they don't want to go out with you or want to stop seeing you they tend to avoid, not return phone calls etc. It's rare that someone is up front. So,this is a situation with someone in my building, whose mother I drive to work a number of times per week. I don't need to feel anymore stress in my day to day existence. But,then again having a fun evening out with someone I've known and whose company I enjoy might just be fine. I dunno, no rush.