I just messaged both of them. I read over and over on here and other websites recommended here that it probably is the best course of action.

Expose, expose, expose, right?

Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed