I'm not one to be giving advice but I have a similar problem I have been thinking about calling the om and telling him all I know but I believe it would end any chance of reconcile I think what i am going to do is keep trying to distance and work on me. maybe you should consider the same. I feel your pain hang in there


me 46
w 42
m 18 years this april
two boys 24 & 14
bomb nov. 9 2009
still fighting to hold on