Not sure which way to go anymore

[Abbey]

From a completely different way of looking of trying win someone back... Mort Fertel's idea is to "give" something to the WAS. Something that would mean something to them. So not a bad idea, IMO.

I did have to mix bits and pieces of Mort's and DB together at times.

Keep your piccie out of it,... first of all, ... he'll know you made it. Secondly... it'll drive OW nuts. ... especially when she'll say ... she's trying to invade... and he'll probably say... if she was doing that... she'd have put in piccies of herself. Play the odds Mystik.

And as for "love you" ... Hubs did some of that crap too... He did spend time wanting both of us for a while. I still say: play the odds, play the odds, play the odds I actually fell down the stairs one morning while he was on the phone with her: ... saying: Good morning. He was so afraid of her finding him "with me"... that he was oblivious that I almost broke my leg. Remember screwed in the head? Yeah.

I'll urge you... as hard as this is... try to embrace your singlehood while you have it. You ARE going to need it to help you through whatever life throws at you. One of the mistakes I made was not enjoying myself more when I was single. Honestly... there are times now (believe it or not).. that I miss being single. I can't really explain it better than this... just put him away every so often so you can work on you... and what you like. If you focus solely on "him" and all that entails... you'll miss an opportunity to become a bigger better version of yourself.

*hugs*
Abbey