Sandi2, no joke about the love dare. That was a big bomb. Little more background. The OM, is her boss (principle). She is under contract at this time. There is no way for there not to be some contact. I came deal with that, if the contact is the correct kind. I am committed to my marriage, fighting for my marriage, but I will not be run over or in an open marriage. I will not continue unhappy, like we both have been. W says she is through "checked out", but has not made the move to leave the bedroom, house or hide her nakedness. She has talked about D, even last week, but made no move to do anything. I will not at this time move or file. I will have to have concrete info to ask her about OM again. The other two times have ended very badly and set us way back. She has gotten were she calls or text me a lot more for little or no reason. Last Thursday when she brought up D, I told her that was probably the best thing. That never of us had been happy for a while and I didnt see it changing. I didn't plead, beg, ask to go to counselling or anything like that this time.
H 38 W 34 M 7/98 Bomb 2/19/10 D 7 S 5 Still under same roof
