You just don't want to look back and regret it later. I have a friend in Canada that isn't planning on getting divorced unless she plans on remarrying. She is legally separated. I guess the thinking is a bit different here in the States.
I am divorced but it was painful enough finding out your ex who swore he was never going to get married again, is engaged to his affair partner/live in girlfriend. Blech. Feel for my kids.
Me, I just know there is some awesome incredible guy just waiting to meet me!(soon, I hope).
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory