Originally Posted By: Quicksilver264
But should I message HIM and let him know that I know EVERYTHING, and tell him how uncompassionate he is being. Just let him know that what he is doing is so wrong.

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In their Effed up mind, they think this isn't adultery.. They think that because there is no penetration, it's not an affair.. it's such BS. it makes me sick!


Well her reasoning is that she was done with the marriage BEFORE she ever had an affair, and that she "just went someplace else to find what she needed, and that it could have been me because she always came to me FIRST"..




Personally me?!? Yes I would call him out on it. I don't believe in keeping an A secret or not contacting the OP and exposing that you know. I mean,who knows, He may be mortified and embarrassd by it that maybe he won't want to have anything to do with her. She will be left all alone. That should be a nice wake up call.

I believe that a's thrive on secrecy. Once you take that away, there isn't as much thrill anymore.

BUT you have to stick to your guns and follow through.

I know others won't agree with this.

Last edited by timehealsall; 06/08/10 10:50 PM.

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