Yellowrose, I have been reading your posts and I have been very hopeless to say the least about my situation, but it gives me a gleam of hope when I read stories of restored M's. My H left on Xmas Eve, was called to duty on April 30th and is getting on a plane overseas on June 11th. He says he is never coming back to me and that I should make new friends. Says it was a mistake to get married and that he needs to find a life for himself. He had (or still does) an OW.
I am so very hopeless and his attitude is almost venomous at times like the last 11 years never mattered. He is so distant, spending every waking moment before he goes overseas with folks I consider to be acquaintenences not even friends when I have always been in his corner supporting him. He even says he is no longer a kind hearted person. Weird!! Any advice? I am really sorry to ask.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
