Always remember, your actions will speak louder than words.
You look her directly in the eyes, and slowly, calmly, use Gucci's speech EXACTLY.
When she denies/lies, your response is: "We both know you are lying" and walk away.
I would NOT engage OM.
Get others input on the parents.
Just disable her internet access. No need to "make it look like the router died".
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6. I tell her she has 2 choices, stop the affair or MOVE OUT.
NO, she needs to feel the loss. No choices. YOU HAVE DECIDED THAT YOU ARE DONE WITH HER. You are rejecting her. You are letting natural consequence happen to her based on her poor choices.
Ditto! I wish I had come on this site when I first got my bomb.. I would have handled it just as above and I can assure you that things would have been differently. Instead, I allowed myself to be put on this horrid rollercoaster of lies, torment and more lies!
GL!
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
