Say I call her hand. She lets me see phone and there is nothing there. Then what? Should I try to check ahead of time and know the text are there? I can't say for sure that there is still a EA or if she has become a WAW.
I would not ask to see the phone yet. I strongly suggest that you learn her phone inside and out by reading the user manual. She will leave it at some point, possible when she showers or sleeps. You will then be able to get the intel you need. You can then let us know what you find and how to respond.
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