...I wish I had been more aggressive in gathering intel.
Amen.
Those here that do the tough job of gathering intel, not revealing their sources, and then exposing the affair at the right time and in the right way have better odds of reconciling....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712