Always remember, your actions will speak louder than words.
You look her directly in the eyes, and slowly, calmly, use Gucci's speech EXACTLY.
When she denies/lies, your response is: "We both know you are lying" and walk away.
I would NOT engage OM.
Get others input on the parents.
Just disable her internet access. No need to "make it look like the router died".
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6. I tell her she has 2 choices, stop the affair or MOVE OUT.
NO, she needs to feel the loss. No choices. YOU HAVE DECIDED THAT YOU ARE DONE WITH HER. You are rejecting her. You are letting natural consequence happen to her based on her poor choices.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712