Yes... we moved up here about 11 months ago so that he could open a skateboard shop. He said we could live with his parents until we were able to move out on our own. Well let's just say his skateboard shop and his customers became the focus of all of his attention and april 28 he said he wanted a divorce.
But has not made any efforts of moving out. I feel so trapped I wish I could move out but I dont make enough money, I am still a student and my job doesnt pay that well.
So I think you have two choices: stay where you are, doing what you are doing and suffering. Or...get another job that pays more so you can move out (maybe find a roommate to help with expenses) and take control of your life instead of relying on a most unreliable, deadbeat dad.
Caution: don't reply with a bunch of reasons why you can't do this. Think it through. Think of ways you CAN make this happen. I want you to think of the many people on this planet who have done much more with even LESS than you have now. I want you to find inspiration and see that strength in yourself --- then do it. Remember, you are MODELING for your child. She's watching you.
Get big!
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